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I'd rather be a tradwife

the Butker Debacle revisited

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Stephen G. Adubato
Jun 08, 2024
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Check out Emilia’s piece on being an unironic tradwife, and Stephen’s (un)hot take on the Butker Debacle.

And order your copy of the zine vol. ii

Among the most important lessons my late grandmother taught me was that if I were a woman, I should aspire to be a tradwife. 

Numerous women object to the prospect of abandoning their career path in order to stay home. Being a stay at home mom leaves you stuck with the burden of raising the kids, cleaning the house, depending on your husband financially—thus putting yourself in a vulnerable position should your husband end up being abusive, and depriving you of a life of your own. 

But my grandmother’s brand of tradwifery evaded such pitfalls. 

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